In the
Ultimate Discovery System the Reserved/People Oriented individual is the High S type. The High S is Supportive, Steady, Stable, Sweet, Sensitive and Shy. They are like the friend that sticks closer than a brother. However, sometimes the High S type can be afraid to share their thoughts in certain situations. It’s a tendency that they need to be aware of so that when the time is right, they can gather courage, straighten up their spine and speak out.
Let’s look at a situation that you may relate to. Possibly you have some High S players on your team at work. Knowing they have a natural tendency to remain quiet, you may find it a good idea to tell them in private, before the meeting, that you would like to hear their thoughts. Consequently, prior to closing the meeting, remember to turn to the High S and ask, “Do you have any information to share with the group?” Many times you will find that they have formulated the solution to an important problem you have been discussing in your meeting. However, because of their nature, they were hesitant to bring it up in front of the whole group. This is a natural fear that grips the High S type. If you have told the High S up front what is expected during the meeting, they can begin to prepare for their turn in the spotlight. While they may be nervous throughout the meeting waiting for their turn to speak, in the end, by giving them fair warning, the results that you are seeking will be better than had you put them on the spot in front of the entire team.
If you do not have High S tendencies and are working with a High S type, it is in your best interest to have patience with them. They are wonderful people, even if their pace does not match yours. The High S types make great teammates! They are tremendous finishers because they will stick with the project to the very end.
If this reserved/people oriented style seems like your personality, I encourage you to muster up the confidence and speak. You have great perspectives that others need to hear. To piggyback off an old saying…Remember, ‘A spine is a terrible thing to waste!’
